for a while now i've been having issues with people talking, "ada mulut, ckp lar kan?!" some might say but im not gonna touch dosa dan pahala coz i'm no expert. contrary to popular belief, communication is not all about talking. in my case, i think d less said d better because cakap actually comes with a lot of side effects, no kidding because sometimes it's just as bad as riding a motorcycle on d freeway without helmet!
this post might be a lil indulgent, but dats d whole purpose for me because after all this my way of venting some of my emotions. ok, as far as i'm concerned, as long as wat you say doesn't do you or anyone any good, then it's rubbish which doesnt require for any talking in d first place. when people go on and on and on about something, it gets on my nerves (i dont know bout d rest) and it forces you to talk back because under certain circumstances, it calls for "fight or flight". when i try to kick some sense into certain people, they cant face the fact dat that their rambling is just utter rubbish and then they get hurt (awwwwww, poor bitch/SOB) but d bottom line is, think before you speak because if you fail to think and analyze d situation, you'll end up talking stupid (read: talking n making yourself look SO stupid).
i may not be d smartest gal around but i try not to make a fool of myself by getting all emotional all d time. ders something dat i always believe in which is more than often people dont justify their 'talk' with their 'walk' which actually should call for suicide (hoi, x malu ke cakap x serupa bikin??) because tis is humiliating and unless you enjoy indulging in humility, then i rest my case. plus, if you're a firm believer of 'respect is earned' then these empty cans definitely have lotsa outstanding. how can you shake them to their senses? i just dont know how to...
so d least im praying for right now is, if these people cant resist the urge to talk shits and stuffs, please go and find something/someone else to talk to because damn im not interested. or if you still have to talk to me, please make sure it's of some (even a speck) good because i refuse to listen to more futile and unproductive stuffs, especially coming from someone who lacks credibility and IQ.


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